Your reality, your present circumstances, your what is........is only the contrast that launches the rocket of desire for what you really want. Don't pay any attention to the what is reality if it is not what you want, see it just as a temporary stepping stone to get you to where you are really going. Keep your eyes on that which you want, seeing your self already there. Then your what is reality will shift to match the vibration of the thing you want. What you focus on must become more. It is a law. You can control your life and what you want. You can be in charge of every thought you have. If you are not familiar with the term vibration, think of love and how you feel when you are in love. Think of anger and remember how it feels when you are angry. Think of a joyous moment, a moment of fear. How those emotions feel are actually a vibration. If you were hooked up to a device that can record what that 'energy' looks like.....that would be what I refer to as a vibration. On the other hand you don't need such information from a device, you more than anyone know exactly how these emotions feel.
Society wants to condemn the 'misfits'. Society would like to crucify them. Society would like to lock them up. Society would like to put them off in places where they can never get near any of you. Society does not understand that they are your creation. As individuals, you have to accept responsibility for everything that's interacting with you. Because it would not be interacting with you if you did not have an active vibration about it. This is really, really important.
This means I cannot blame how I feel on my mate. I cannot blame how I feel on my children, or on my mother, or on my government, or on my society, or on my client, or on the other drivers around me. In other words, the experience that I'm having is my responsibility.
It's all my creation.
It's all my responsibility.
You say, "Oh, but it wasn't my fault because I didn't have the feelings I have until they did that action, and after they did that action then I had my feelings.." still, you are the only one that can change your feelings, thoughts. All of which are a vibration. An energy that triggers the law of attraction. We live in a universe that is based on the law of attraction. What you focus on becomes more. And you say, "Oh, but if they'd behave differently, then I'd change my vibration. No one else can feel your feelings, can think your thoughts. No one else can cause anything to happen to you unless you allow it with your belief system, your thoughts, your feelings. Some way, some how if something is in your face, you have invited it in. Everyone has their own thoughts and it is not designed that I or you hold each other in thought long enough that I can change you or you can change me. You or I could only have that effect on each other if we choose to accommodate each other and stay in the same thought feeling place 'vibration'. All of us are responsible for our own reality. It only takes a moment in time to re-group and change your focus, your attention, your thinking on the outcome of your choosing. If you will focus on the part of other people that you like and choose to see the best part of those you are around, then that will be the mood, vibration, that they will be in when they are in your space, or they won't be around at all. It is the law of how life works.
You may say, well I don't believe that,.............. Well that is all a part of that law. What you believe and focus on you become and you receive. If you don't see it in your life experience, you just need to look back at different circumstances and see how life has unfolded for you. If you don't see that you bring everything into your existence, then you are one of those who has a belief system of victim. And that will be what and how you live your life. Still brought on by the law of attraction you don't believe in.Your experience will always be and will always prove to you that your belief system is truth for you. Whether good or bad, profitable or loss, your life reflects your choices and thoughts.
I never knew I had control over my own happiness and circumstances in my life. But think about it, if a divine force could by a stroke of a pen write the laws of the universe to sustain every living breathing person to have whatever they focus upon....well then that is a good thing! And that is exactly what has happened. The main law in life is The Law of Attraction. Simply stated what you focus on becomes more.
So no matter what anyone is into....it becomes more. The universe is a yes universe. You feel and think....I feel bad...the universe answers yes to it.
You say I am in love and feel good.....the universe answers yes to it.
Most people don't know it is their birthright to live in a place of well being. So they never focus their attention on what that really means. They have habituated all the crappy feelings of
I don't have what I need
I am not loved
When will it be my turn for happiness
Things always go wrong and happiness never lasts for me.
My government is so screwed up, living in the USA isn't what it use to be.
My government controls me and everyone in it.
All of which the universe answers .....YES...YES...YES.
It actually takes some effort to control your thoughts until they become habit
Most people live in the part of their brain that is the flight and fright section in the back area. This is where adrenalin and cortisone and other chemicals are manufactured. Chemicals that are useful if you were living in the caveman era and need to go into battle or get the hell out of Dodge. In todays world mental stress from your job or relationships or circumstances creates the same 'brain' response.
Living from this place keeps you on guard always looking for the next shoe to drop, the next danger around the next corner.
The creative part of the brain, the left frontal lobe is the place that all healing comes from. The place of wellness and happiness. A person CAN change what they focus on and start to habituate living in this place from this part of the brain.
There are 4 kinds of people:
1 Unhappy
2 Happy for a bad reason.....usually addicts and disconnected people. Happiness flees from them when they are not doing the thing that they do
3 Happy for a good reason...these people seem happy because they have the things they want, the right mate, the right house, the right job, etc. Although their happiness can be fleeting if something changes in their circumstances.
4 Happy for NO reason....these people can actually live a life that is truly happy even if circumstances are up and down. Very few people fall into this group. But a person can raise their happiness meter to achieve this happiness place. It takes determination that you truly want to be happy and are willing to take responsibility of your own outcome.
Those in the fourth category can habituate this way of thinking enough that they can literally change their reality. They can be happy for no reason. They can elevate their happiness set point. And they can activate the happiness thought process that starts bringing into their existence what the law of attraction was really designed to do, always gives you what you focus upon. It is always the choice of each of us. To decide what we want and focus your attention upon that. The problem is that most people focus on what they don't want. They think a minute of what they want and then they hash and rehash all the reasons /obstacles that they can think of that will keep it from happening. Then a little ways down the road, they say all this law of attraction doesn't really work because I have stated that I want a happy life and I am not getting it.......and the universe answers yes to them.
I am here to say, perseverance pays off. I am the happiest I have ever been and I mean my happiness meter is off the charts with happy for no reason.
Another reason someone might not be able to raise their happiness meter is because their belief systems tell them they can't be happy now and they have a million reasons to back that up.
Someone might think he can only reach true happiness/joy when the lord returns......the universe answers yes and that person is always looking for happiness when the lord comes back, which all the days that didn't happen is a day of waiting, putting up with the crap of what is..............answered by the universe. Yes, yes, yes. Why not think of your life as always having all the abundance and joy and fulfillment possible, knowing that the times and seasons ahead of you will take care of themselves. Why not go with the flow and experience life in all its grandness. Why not enjoy your life by focusing on these things.
Another person may say, I need to get my ducks in a row, do this do that, when I get all these things taken care of, then I can be happy....the universe answers yes, yes to that, and their happiness always lies in the future. One thing about the future is it never arrives. It is always in the future.
Happiness or un happiness is today, right now. You choose.
JoAnn
these thoughts have been compiled from Abraham-Hicks teachings, understanding the Law of Attraction and Information from the new Book "Happy for no reason" by Marci Shimoff
EFT and The Law of Attraction - A Perfect Match
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